The Midlife Oasis
The Oasis Mission
Help for left behind spouses needing a safe supportive space to restore wellbeing, reclaim peace, and rebuild confidence needed to deal with the insanity, betrayal and abuse of a spouse in midlife crisis. Regardless whether you are standing for your marriage or moving forward, we focus on YOU... building resilience and self trust needed for achieving your goals, rather than aiming to fix the wayward spouse.
Shelter from the Storm
Understand the "MLC script" and what to expect so you can prepare and plan. Discover your needs and goals and map the steps ahead to make sound decisions, secure your future & avoid regret.
Tools for Navigating
Learn specific strategies and develop new skills that will help you regulate negative emotions, communicate effectively, and protect your peace so you can trust yourself and feel good again.
Sailing Forward
Practice implementing strategies in real time having expert support in your corner. Transform your circumstance and relationships as you transform yourself from the inside out.
"This smile you see on my face did not exist when I first started talking to Dede. I was in a very dark place. My husband abruptly left after 22 years of marriage. It was the most devestating thing I've ever gone through. I tried therapy, everything reading books but I knew I needed something more. And I decided to take a chance and reach out to Dede and it's been the most amazing experience. Not only in getting over that betrayal trauma.She helps you really learn to know yourself, love yourself, like yourself. It's the most amazing gift you can give yourslef. I highly recommend you take advantage of her time, because it's precious I promise you.
Reach out, you won't regret it."
Annie, PA
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